Today is the first weekend that SS4 is here since the move. We only moved last Saturday, so nothing out of the norm there. But now, we have GM83 here too. I don't know what to think yet. SS4 can be pretty independent sometimes. GM83, is well, 83 and feels the need to take care of everyone around her, except me it seems. She didn't come out of her bedroom when I got home. She waited until DH got home with SS.

Anyway, I don't think SS is going to appreciate her being all up in his business, but we will see. I imagine he will just tell her to leave him alone. That will be pretty funny, IMO.

But, DH got some interesting news. It seems BM, who currently lives about an hour away, will be moving into our county and be about 20 minutes away. I have mixed feelings about this. I seriously don't want to be running into them all the time. I can't stand BM's attitude. She is the first of the "entitled" generation. Her BF wasn't in her life, so her mom spoiled the ever loving shit out of her.

The good news is, we could go for 50/50 now if we wanted too. I want to and I am sure DH does, the problem is, we do not have the funds for a lawyer. BM will fight tooth and nail to keep her CS the way it is. Now that she is moving out of her mothers house, she will need that money to support her, her husband, SS and SS 1/2 brother.

But I am willing to make her life miserable in court if I can. It will be my pleasure to torture her some after the way she treated DH during the first custody/visitation BS.

Anyone know of a family law laywer in Maryland that will do some pro-bono work, or at least work for dirt cheap?