My SS14 is currently suspended for the 3rd time this year, for five days. This time he was told by the school admin that he couldn't go to the 8th grade dance because he had three referrals this trimester. So he decided to say, "I'll kill anyone who stands in my way of going to the dane." Bam! Suspended! When DH was doing his usual bit of, "He was just mad." I asked, "How many times have you promised to kill people?" As it turns out, my DH has never actually threatened to kill anyone. Go figure. I also told DH that I was worried that I would come home to a dead family one day (a bit of an exaggeration, but a real fear), or that we could end up facing another family when SS kills their kid.

As for now, I think DH is mildly convinced that SS14 could possible be a psycho, but I have another appointment set up with a psychologist in two weeks (the fastest they can get him in without a serious threat), but I told the Dr. I want him in on a regular basis with a weekly or biweekly appointment. SS14s mom is bipolar and loves to tell DH how her son is just like her, but she tends to disappear when the s.h.i.t hits the fan.

The thing that really gets me is that SS14 has locked himself in his room for the past few months (grounded from video games), but now that he's suspended and we told him he's going to go to a psychologist, he's all hanging out downstairs with the bios and DH acting like he's mr. normal and we're all part of this Rockwell family. He acts like he's super happy and I don't know if he's trying to convince us that he's sane, or if he's just happy that we all are suspicious that he's a psycho.