My bio son 22 lost his dad in Nov 2014. I married DH just over a year ago but we've known each other for almost 4 years. My bio called DH on fathers day just to chat. DH is a great step father but such a crap father. Im glad he has been good to my kids and they appreciate him but I wish he'd get it together with his own hot mess of 4 children he has spawned. My kids are both adults so they never lived with us and they were in college when we started dating so there was never any drama. Wish we woulda waited to get married until his spawn flew the coop but with 4 of them I know they are always going to be around. None of them are college bound but the older girls surprisingly are hard workers. Fortunately they dont behave in the workplace like entitled assholes, only at home...which shows me they know better but they just don't care.