How sad is it that when your ss comes home from a visit you predict that there was a fight and now a break up between bm and her drug dealing bf?

Oh, and ss is telling bm flat out lies to try to get bm to soften up and allow him to move back in with her. Of course, it's been six months since she last broke up with her bf, so it was time for the cycle to repeat.

SS is such an idiot, he mistakenly called his own dad thinking he was calling his uncle (the one that just got released from prision for dealing drugs) and said this..."can you call my mom?" dh replied "why do I need to call your mother?" ss said "b/c my dad is on a rampage and I want to move back in with my mom..." dh replied..."ss, DO YOU REALIZED THAT YOU ARE TALKING TO YOUR DAD RIGHT NOW?" ss...silient.....

I'm pretty proud of dh right now....bm called him with her sympathetic voice letting dh know that ss really wants to move back in with her, that ss will behave for her, and ss will go to any school she is zoned for when she finds her own place...blah...blah...blah...dh returned..."bm you can have ss back if you really want him...but if you are going to take him back, you are keeping him FOREVER. I'm not doing this back and forth anymore, I'm not letting ss run the show. So if you want him back, just know you are keeping him forever!" Next thing you know, she got a little tough on the phone with ss, and even threatened to wash his mouth out with soap.

Ahhh...the saga continues. I'm sure ss will eventually be allowed to make an adult based decision and move back in with his unstable mother, I will be totally frustrated, and feel helpless, and then a month later, she will be calling us up to take him back...