Naw, I didn't argue with him at all. When he showed me what he got a friend of his.. who he has know for 10yrs but rarely talks to anymore as she has become my best friend and is married. She has boundaries. She doesn't buy him stuff, unless she buys for me and my kids as well. He was roommates with her and her now husband. So he is friends with both. They have a kid. And he bought her these boxers, and then went on for 10minutes about how boxers aren't underware, and how he wears them to just lay around in. My response.... Boxers are underware, let's go look in BS underware drawer and see what's there. And you have not worn boxers ever since we have been together. Not once.
I told him he is getting creepy as he buys me underware because "he wants to see them on me". And that is what he picked out for her????
He kept talking and I left the room.
He can try to convince the wall boxers arent underware all he wants. I am not playing that game.

No, I dont. I am just floored at DHs logic on this as he tried to convince me there was nothing wrong with this and they aren't underware

Read the end of the post I just put up. It explains more why doing this for this person hasn't made me mad but questioning again. Not a gag gift. Her favorite movie. On boxers. Nothing bought for her husband or kid. Just her, as usual. I am suppose to just deal with everything he does for her. And this one... Went to far. When he tried to tell me "I wear boxers to just lay around the house" I called his bullshit. I have been with you almost 4 years, not only have I never seen you wear boxers, you don't own any "

This is copied and posted from my full post I just put up.

Oh. I didn't tell you all. You know how I found out about the boxers?!?! DH was rambling, told me he was looking for boxers and underware for DD but decided it was weird. I told him, your deal with underware is weird. You spent 11 hours at back to school shopping time picking out SGDs underware, you have bought BS boxers (yes ladies, boxers are not underware. But he bought BS boxers as underware... Makes sense, right?!???) you bought me underware a couple of months ago because you wanted to see them on me...and now your looking at underware for DD????? Don't. Apparently that seemed like the perfect time to go OH, guess what I got friend. I'll show you. TA DA ... Boxers. For my best friend. Was his friend first. But she is normal. He married, she married and she barely talks to him now. He texts her once in awhile, but otherwise no contact. Deal is... This is the woman he paid $76 in shipping to get her favorite ice cream from Texas shipped while she was pregnant. Buys and has Amazon send her random gifts. I brought up going to a concert last year. Nothing. Texted him that her and I were looking but they were sold out. And bam he found and bought tickets. Next tickets he bought "me" was her favorite group. It got drunk last Christmas (didn't have the kids, they were at BFs) and ended up making the comment to him that I think he has a thing for her.