:jawdrop: so DH came to me about SGD missing her last dental appointment and wanted to know how to handle it with SD.
I told him night before notice when SD has a 2 yr old isn't enough time. He should give SD a time line (says 2 months) in that time period let her know what needs to be done. For example , dentist appointment, counseling appointment and so on. If she doesn't do it, then step in. Seemed like a workable fair solution to me. DH actually agreed he didn't give SD enough time to get SGD to the appointment and he would talk to SD.
Now, waiting to see if he actually talks to her, or if he just complains in a month that SD isn't doing this.