According to SD17, I have no voice
H was home this weekend for the first time since Thanksgiving. We decided to go to the town SD's live in, do some Christmas shopping and take them to supper.
We picked them up, drive to the restaurant, have our meal. Both SD's are sitting there, no smiles, just angry looking. SD17, hair hanging in her face. Then the ticket comes
H: (talking to me, kiddingly) Should I tip $20
Me: No. $8.00
H: Kidding again-$15.00?
SD17-picture hair hanging in face, sneering, snotty voice: Why are you asking HER? It's YOUR money, not HERS.
H: No. It's our (his and mine) money.
Me: looking SD17 straight in the eyes: And I AM his WIFE!
You guys, I just wanted to reach across the table, grab her stringy hair and smack her one!.
I admit I wanted more from H-like, to tell her to start respecting me, or shut up, or something more, but at least I got something.
On the drive home, I told H SD17 really upset me. And then I said to him "How would she like it if I mentioned everytime she comes over that it's MY house!"
This is so pathetic. I've waited all these months for her to actually voice so clearly her attitude towards me, and had hoped for more...but at least I got something. And H was decent to me all weekend. I looked back on my postings-been on here almost 8 weeks...and have only had 2 times when H has been home for days off that were decent, normal life weekends. Pathetic.
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Give her a dose of her own poison...
What a snot!!! As I recall this would be the snot that asks your husband when she wants to use your computer...I say, give her a dose of her own poison..Next time she is at your house and asks your dh if she can borrow your computer I would just interupt her and say "Why are you asking him..It's MY computer, not HIS." And then, of course, I would tell her that "No" you can't use it." I would take every oppurtunity to spin this around on her...Yes, and I would remind her, at every oppurtunity, that its your house, your tv, your kitchen, your couch, and your everything, not HIS...
Who knows??? Maybe you will make him and his Leechettes so angry they will punish you by moving out!! LOL..
In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~ disgusted
Oh, the matchy matchy shoes also appeared
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
So after we took the sd's out to eat, we went to the discount store-and H & SD17 ran into one of her classmates. I was kind of standing off to the side. SD17-s classmate looks at sd's shoes & at H's shoes and says-Oh, you guys DO have matching shoes.
SD17 says-Told Ya!
Her classmate then turns to me and asks-where's yours? (matching shoes)
My response-I'm the outsider. I'm not in the loop.
H then starting hemming and haaaing - like oh, I couldn't find her (me) size, etc. Sickening.
This is a little late in
This is a little late in commenting on this, but how retarded is the matching shoes thing? It would be more understandable if it was a woman and a YOUNGER daughter, but a grown man and his almost grown daughter? Just weird! If it were me, I would be doing the happy dance that he couldn't find matching shoes in my size!!
How about the fact it's YOUR HOUSE????
And all the things in it that are YOURS???
What a little bitch. I'd demand an apology from the little snot before she'd be allowed to step foot in MY HOUSE, BW or all of her things would be out on the front lawn.
No CHILD would EVER disrespect me like that.
JMHO.
"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis
Oh, you know H. I'm not allowed to call this MY house
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
It would be back to the Thanksgiving fight-where H was walking around saying this is his, that is his, everything in here is his (alot of it is...because he took MY things to the apartment). All because I used H's cell phone.
H should have made her apologize to me-did not happen. I was amazed that he actually spoke up and told her it was "our" money. Meanwhile, when I know she's about to arrive on Christmas, I'll make sure the door is firmly locked. Then she'll have to at least knock before she marches into my home.
wow what a little witch
and youre rite--DH shouldve reacted more but i guess something is better than nothing! like i always say to DH...maybe i wouldnt overreact to every little thing if u didnt UNDERreact!
u SO shouldve smacked her...how funny would that have been??
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
BW, I'm praying for a Christmas Miracle for you...
That on the way over to YOUR HOUSE (yeah, I'm sayin' it)for the Christmas visit, DH, and both SDs get run over by a reindeer!
"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis
Wouldn't that be wonderful!
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
I kind of am cooking up a plan here. We have to have dinner here at my house...don't want SD's at my folks for one minute, plus MIL cannot walk over there (it's right next door).
But once dinner is done-I'm grabbing my son, heading over next door to the folks'. Then H can just entertain, wait on, and smooze his darlins' & his momma to his hearts desire. I, my sister, her H, her son, my son, will be having a fun time over at my folks.
Good for you, BW
Stick to your guns. And don't let them over at your parent's house- not even your a$$hole DH. Let them all wallow together intheir dysfunction while you, your son, and your parents enjoy some normal time together.
I am so happy that you and your son will be together.
"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis
Would this be too evil?
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
I've sworn not to ever fix SD17's favorite appetizer again. However, I'm thinking-maybe I'll whip up a few deviled eggs for exmas for the precious princess. And slip a little (ok, alot) of exlax into the mix...she could then spend the whole day in the toilet...where she belongs :evil:
LOL
I had to do a double take bewitched, I red "exmas" as enemas, made even funnier by the second line of you post, LOL!!!
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." Albert Einstein
Good Lord.
I think he's having sex with his daughter. Let's get him arrested.
But anyways, on a more serious note. I would have slapped the shit out of that kid. I wish I could just take over your body during one of those events, you'd wake up and realize that step mom jen had just beat the crap out of your SD. LOL!
What a fun thought huh?
Jen, I could hardly control myself-don't think I could've
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
I don't think I could've controlled you...then we'd both be locked up for Christmas
Try ipecac, it's much easier
Try ipecac, it's much easier to put in food and they'll think it's a virus.