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BettyRay's picture

1. Rejoice, rejoice BM has a boyfriend.

He was at SS12’s Christmas concert. The way BM treated him answers a lot of questions for me. Yet again she brought up another story of something that happened when DH and she were married. That no one else would know or care about – BTW.

BM does this every time I’m at a skid event with DH. I always thought she did it to make me feel awkward. Now I know this is a thing with BM.:? I could see that BM’s new boyfriend was pretty uncomfortable. After almost 10 years with DH I’m numb to it. Poor Dude – I hope he had the balls to say something to BM.

After the concert, while DH and BM were taking pictures of SS12, BM’s boyfriend introduced himself to me. WHY? Because, BM is too self centered an immature to figure it out on her own. Actually, DH was about to introduce us but BM’s boyfriend beat him too it. Oh and BM just stands there giggling her apology for “forgetting” to introduce everyone.

Which leads me to….

2. Skids will be with us for Christmas Eve AND Christmas Day – This is the first time in the 10-years I’ve been with DH that this has happened. Can we say “Christmas Nookie”? This should be interesting. :sick:

But what I don’t get…

3. DH has been a total A-Hole the last couple of days. You’d think he’d be excited I’m guessing it’s because the skids will be with us for Christmas and DH wants everything to be perfect which means that I’m not living up to his idea of the perfect wife. Whatever.

Merry Christmas STalkers! I hope yours is going to be better than mine.

~BettyRay

Comments

TASHA1983's picture

Ugh I'm sorry that your Xmas will be ruined by dh/skid bs! Sad

The only way my Xmas will be good is if DH just does what he plans to do and drop skids g.card off to him and LEAVE...then come home WITHOUT skid in-tow. Smile (Skid has been blowing DH off since April) Any deviation from the above will NOT make me happy...and he WILL know about it!

BettyRay's picture

I didn't mean it that way at all.

I ment that DH is ruining Christmas with his shitty mood when he should be excited to have the boys. And when DH is in a shitty mood he takes it out on me. Which totally sucks.

Normally he's an ass on Christmas because he doesn't have the boys and this year he does have them and he's still being an ass. Which is what I don't get.

~BettyRay

snowdrop's picture

my dh's shitty attitude is ruining Christmas too. hope you are able to enjoy it regardless of him being the Grinch Smile