So I noticed that GG has been "hiding" his phone since the "living young wild and free" (horribly misspelled by VD SD13) text.

Seems she texted him YET AGAIN during SCHOOL HOURS yesterday with the SAME TEXT MSG!!!!

I told GG this morning that VD is getting that from a popular music rap video about smoking weed and getting drunk.

Me: "Do you want to see it?" (as I reach to type in youtube)

GG: (abruptly and gruffly) "NO!" and he made no eye contact with me.

I should have just started playing it and when he asks what it is I should have told him that it's VD's fav song and mantra. You know, "HIS VD" as he says; the innocent goldilocks child who won't be doing drugs. . ..

So it was the equivalent to him putting his fingers in his ears and going "la la la la la. . . la la la la la"

He would rather do an ostrich. Why am I not surprised? In other news I'm compiling a list of things to do for my exit. . .

List of things I'll be taking with me
Stuff to put in his name and out of my name

I've removed all files from the house as well as cherished childhood items from my bios. I'm now starting to separate paperwork into a personal file that pertains to him only. I noticed one thing as well. . . before he came into my life (year 2002) as a contented single mother, all my file boxes were neat, orderly, etc. Since then and especially thru the doormat years (2003-2009) the file boxes are exploding with paperwork from HIS drama. HMMMMMM!