The names have changed to protect the innocent and not so innocent.

Here are the names: Biodad=Godsgift (to women)
BM= Behemoth
SS14= Brainiac
SD12=Vera (de Milo) --Jim Carey sketch on In Living Color
SS8= Prince Hygiene

WHERE to BEGIN!!

Well Godsgift, instead of boozing, was drinking coffee and trying to "act reasonable" (yeah right)
Smoking cigs too IN THE HOUSE! Stunk up the place pretty bad!

He's "hurt" doncha know. Seemed to have an uncanny interest in my email to his oldest brother :sick:
Don't know how much he saw as I checked the laptop. My old email has definitely been compromised so please don't use that email address (i have a new one!) No typed URLs to steptalk, but he probably googled the nicknames

So to him blogging on this site is "immature" and "juvenile" and he "forbids" me to do it. To me that is typical of an abuser. . .trying to isolate me from friends and family. He views blogging on the internet about step problems to be airing dirty laundry to a "bunch of strangers." The way internet pedophiles act. He's already tried to isolate my oldest daughter Peg (29) and her husband. And he's isolated two of my friends (former colleagues)

I view this site as my 2nd family and friends site, so TOUGH! He presumtuously:

1. deleted all the emails I saved from him when we were in our "honeymoon" phase
2. deleted all my passwords in my email that were to internet shopping sites

And the worst! He told Awesomeson last night that he had to move out because HE was SELLING the place. Now imagine if the house was in HIS name and I told Brainiac to move out because I had a fight with his dad!!??? Yeah that would fly!!!
I told him that he had no right do that and in fact that Awesomeson can STAY and HE can move out. So then he started talking "palimony" and that he wanted a lump sum of 8K from me to move out!! With the house unfinished!! I said "ok" and that shocked him into backing off! Here's the deal: I was really calling his bluff and I"m sure when the house is finished and the economy is better I'll gladly pay him off for getting out, not 8K but a sum of some sorts. He didn't want to take "monthly palimony payments" as I had offered him because it "wasn't in his best interest" (like he didn't trust me)

Another factor! HIs job is slowing down radically and yesterday he had no work as well as today (thanks to the current regime). So he might be getting laid off although he is the "star worker." I think that gave him pause because there's no way he'd be able to live on what unemployment pays him after CS is taken out!! So then he started in with his honeymoon speech. I told him that what he told Awesomeson was extremely presumptious and highly inappropriate!! And I told him he is just as bad a parent as Behemoth as I have caught him treating even Prince Hygiene as an adult confidant about our business.

So somehow blogging to a bunch of anonymous women about common concerns is WAY WORSE than trying to PAS OUT your girlfriend's own SON!!! He even tried to get Awesomeson to comment on my emails!!! If he showed HALF as much BALLS to the Behemoth as he does ME we'd be getting somewhere!!

OH and now he noticed that I cleaned up "the shrine" and wants those photos of his lovely children back to the shrine along with the other ones!! He even CALLED me during WORK today saying he was up in the attic SEARCHING for them and acted suspiciously as though I had tossed them! And he wants to "somehow" contact his children (aka wine and dine them on my dime)

As I was frying my retinas from CAPCHA and getting carpal tunnel from clicking "delete" on FOUR YEARS worth of blogs I noticed that it seems every month for the past I dont' know how long, GodsGift wants to rekindle his warped "relationship" with the "lovelies" I've saved some of my blogs to chronicle the HELL these almost eight years have been to keep me on plan.

This whole thing has only STRENGHTHENED my resolve to continue with my exit plan so that I can get that whole lot out of my life!! AND continue reporting here to help others to NEVER EVER get involved with a man with children!!