Yup DH got a hold of her last night. Contacted a few people and I found her husbands number on-line. Anyway after a few messages and a person getting a hold of her to tell her to call DH she did.

She agreed to sign the document and was happy SS has a family and mom according to DH. Looks like all this will go smoothly and there will be no issues with me officially adopting my SS. Yay! I am really happy but I think I will be over the moon when all is said and done.

They did talk a little about a some stuff. DH told her that if SS ever ask about her he is will be honest and let him reach out to her when he wants to. I am guessing at this point she is just happy he has a good life an maybe she stepped away because she knew he would b taken care of and she could not give him the life that DH and his parents could. I am not really sure.

I am relieved about everything as well. I am happy knowing that if anything ever happened to DH, SS would not be taken away from me. I can access all his stuff and talk to the school and just be his mom without having to jump through hoops.