DH is sometimes do incredibly narcissistic it makes me sick. I mean, hes always narcissistic and he uses that as his "excuse" for his behavior. "I can help that's how my brain is programmed". Are you kidding me? No. No he is not. Anyway last night while I was working, DH texts me and tells me he's going to his friends house for the evening. Okay, fine. It was about 730 and I realized I hadn't eaten all day so I text him and asked him what time he thought he might be done and if he wanted to bring me some food when that happened. He said "not too terribly late, and sure" I told him not to worry about time bc pretty much until midnight- I'm running my ass off passing meds and what not so just asked him to text me when he was leaving and id telling him what I wanted. At midnight he text me and said they were still "playing" and laughed it off. He also asked if I was still hungry...no idiot my stomach ate itself by now thanks. I said well yeah, and he said he'd text me when he left. At THREE FIFTEEN I text him again and he was like oh, I guess time got away from me! Now at this time even if he did bring me something to eat I wouldn't have time to eat it because I have to again pass meds and it just isn't feasible. Now, my problem is not that he was playing with his friends until 3am. I like his friends, they were playing dungeons and freaking dragons for crying out loud, hell he could've been out at a bar, I could have it worse. Anyway my problem is that bc he told me he wouldn't be too late and that he'd bring me food I didn't order anything when the others went to grab dinner. So I'm starving and he just doesn't care and is just like oh haha oops. Meanwhile they orders sushi and so of course he didn't think about it bc he wasn't hungry!! I was livid. Well, more hurt than anything once I thought ab it just because it would be nice for him to think about me, other than himself for once. I just wish he wouldve said, idk what time I'll be leaving but don't wait for me if you're hungry, instead of telling me he would. Its a stupid thing, and i didn't explode on him I just told him I was starving and wish he hadnt committed to bringing me dinner. And it just makes me sad that I married someone that really just doesn't care about me or my feelings in every aspect of our life, and mostly I guess I just expect more from him bc I am always thinking about him and trying to make him happy...not that I should be surprised. He never has. Just wanted to know if I was being silly over dinner.