Should I go????
DH's court date with ex is set for Mon. Nov. 5 Should I attend with him for support? I do know when they divorced he had no one attend to support him and his name was drug through the mud.(is that right"drug" it just sounds weird) Anyway, What do you guys think?
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I think it is "dragged".
I think it is nice that you want to go but I would ask him first. He probably will be glad to have the support.
reason
DH is petioning the court for child support from BM. I have basically raised SS11 and SD8 for the last three years BM voluntarily gave the kids to dad. DH has been raising son since he was 5 and together we've had both kids for 3 years.
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I don't know the whole history,
But I say you should definently be there. I just say that because I can't imagine what a judge would think he or she knows that Dh is married and his wife is not there. I would be afraid of that being seen as a lack of support. I think your presence shows the strength of the union between you and Dh and your support for his relationship with the skids. I think that would play a huge role in my decision if I were a judge.
Again, I don't know all the history though, guess it all depends on the case. I wish you luck either way.
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, and I---
I took the one less traveled by,
and that made all the difference. -Robert Frost-
be there
I would ask him what he thinks, but I definitely want to be there.