Well I'm back to disengaging again :/
SD21's attention seeking is now invading our home again. She is being treated for addiction and psychiatric issues. She wanted to meet with daddy-- who she has barely talked to for the last 3 years, mostly holidays-- and tell him about her evaluation visit. Perhaps I am jaded, but I see nothing positive coming from any of this except her milking the attention and using it as an excuse for not doing for herself. I mean even her dumb BM is now texting SO saying this very thing! Which probably explains why she is coming to SO for attention.
OMG when do they just leave you alone!? FEEEEECK
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Is your SO engaged with
Is your SO engaged with her?
Does he respect your disengagement?
She is a grown ass woman, FFS.
Kudos to BM for seeing her daughter for what she (likely) is - an attention seeking, lazy woman/child.
No, he never really did
No, he never really did actually. I tried to talk about it once and he just got angry and defensive. So I waited a bit and just disengaged on my own. BM helped create her which is why it surprises me she said any of it.
that's what I thought, but
that's what I thought, but it's been awhile since I have seen you, so I wasn't quite sure...
I am very surprised that BM is calling out her own kid, I assume you've seen the proof?
Yes, i read the text and
Yes, i read the text and immediately said wow I agree with BM. That never happens haha
Oh boy, I'm sure it's because
Oh boy, I'm sure it's because some therapist has told her that she needs to talk to daddy about her "daddy issues" that she has probably said are the root cause of all her evils (eye roll)
Actually, she did see a
Actually, she did see a therapist at one point and yeah that was covered.
SD can see Gran in the coffee
SD can see Gran in the coffee shop as well, she's not allowed into your house.....
I would simply ask SD, when did you last contact Gran - oh never... then eff off if she wants to meet you she will let you know when and where...