My Sister in Law is the perfect example of a evil SM. she has caused so much turmoil in our family that I cut all communications off with my brother. My brother was stupid and listened to every word this bitch said, even my brother's kids from his first marriage followed her like lost sheep. I have had no contact with them for over 14 years,

I do get a card or a call once in a while from brother's ex. She is not the problem, never has been, my brother cheated on her and left her with 3 kids and refused to pay child support. Her kids turned on her like a pack of rabid dogs. She is a very strong lady and has survived all this mess for over 20 years.

Out of the blue my niece called me last week, to let me know that my brother was in ICU with a brain bleed and was not expected to live. Niece demands that I contact the rest of the family to let them know what is going on. I don't have any of the rest of the families contact information, I am the black sheep of the family, I like it this way. Think of the movie Deliverance and that's my family. I have changed my phone number many times to keep my family from contacting me. My niece gives me the big FU, and tells me that I am not part of her family.

Sadly my brother passed the next day, July 10th,  SIL, evil SM, calls and demands access to the family cemetery plots. I hold the trust on the family plots, due to brother and SIL wanting to sell off part of the family plot years ago. Of course, I have no problem with this, after all this is for my brother. Then Evil SIL, demands 3 other spots for her and her parents, Nope not going to happen, if it was one space for her, I wouldn't have a problem, but her parents can buy their own plots. SIL is screaming and going crazy over the phone, so I wait for her to catch her breath and told her the paperwork at the cemetery is being signed for brother only, then hang up on her. I faxed over the permission for one space in the family plot.

Twenty minutes later. I am getting calls from the rest of the Deliverance Clan, telling me that I am evil and a bitch. Whatever, I don't care what they think. 45 minutes later I get a call from the cemetery office wanting confirmation that I am singing over 10 spaces in the family plot. WTF!! I tell her no, it's only for one space for my brother. The lady was very nice and said my sister in law was there and wanted to know how to sell off burial plots and how much would they sell for. She suggested that I send over an addendum to my approval and state that the one space is for my brother, by name, this way they can not try to sell off the one approved space. So I faxed over the addendum and my phone goes more crazy, it's Evil SIL, niece and 2 nephews. Blocked all their phone numbers, along with the rest of the Deliverance clan.

I feel nothing about my brother passing, everyone tells me to think of the good times we had growing up. But there just wasn't any good memories as kids with my brother, he was a narcissist and you can't change the way he acted all his life. I called my ex sister-in-law and asked if her kids had called her about their dad. Evil SM had these little assholes called their mother and asked if my brother could be buried in her families plot, since I wouldn't allow him to be buried in the TRUE family plot. I love my ex sister-in-law, what she told her kids makes me so proud of her. She told them that they will reap what the sow, they cut her out of their lives years ago, so why would they want anything from her now. She said that it took everything in her not to slam the phone into the wall when she hung up on them. Ex sister-in-law suggested that I turn over the plot trust to an attorney so I don't have to deal with any of the family, when the next sibling passes away. Contacting a attorney is on the top of my list for tomorrow.

So because my Evil SIL and my asshole niece and nephews are nothing but trash, they have been telling everyone in the area what a piece of crap their mother is for not letting their dad be buried in her family plot. I thank God that I no longer live close to these ingrained pieces of shit. On a good note, ex sister-in-law and her husband are selling their home and moving away from all this turmoil, they are looking to buy a home in the area I live now.