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Teenage SD's haven't really visited their dad in over 15 months unless there is a gift

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Submitted by sickofbs8 on Wed, 10/15/2014 - 11:47am

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Teenage Stepchildren

I'm baffled by the behavior of these two wicked girls. They lie, steal, and manipulate constantly. They treat me like I am invisible and now after 15 months of insults and rude behavior, the oldest who will turn 20 has designed her own birthday event with her dad and grandparents...yet again ignoring the fact that I even exist. If I say ANYTHING at all...not an insult...just express that this is wrong...I am yelled at by daddy. The last time we ran into her in a public place she wouldn't walk to within 6 feet of him if I was with him and the time he saw her before that was to try to undo a $600 phone she had put on his account. Honestly, I am so over the whole thing. Her little sister is the one who threw a fit and got mad at me because I told her to put her clothes in the hamper that was less than a foot away from where she dropped them on the kitchen floor. Big sissy wasn't there and was not at all involved..but she took up the case on whatever lies her baby sister told her. How do people do this step-parent stuff? By the way this was my home they were in...and daddy told me to address the clothes thing as he claimed they would respect me more if it came from me.

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Submitted by Takenforgranted 20 on Sun, 10/19/2014 - 5:14am

Omg i feel for you, i am going through the same shit except my 3 dont live in our town anymore ( thank god) the oldest one is now preg at 17 an the 16 year old has a 26 year old bf in jail. The youngest is still ok but bio has done a bang up job so it will only be a matter of time. I know how you feel being left out. Their was a time when we had to pick them up an both the oldest an youngest ran up to hubby all lovey dovey an completely ignored me, would not even look at me. I am the one that does every thing for these kids, washing, cleaning, cooking even picking up snotty tissues they use an just drop on the floor in MY house. The oldest even lied to hubby an said bio was abusing her so she moved in with her bf my daughter gave up her room an had to share with her brother an when sd left i found most of my daughters clothes put back in her cupboard after being used by sd to clean up after they had sex!!!!! I even found some of hubbys tshirts covered in well you know what!!!!! Sd even lied to bf an said hubby used to ring her an abuse her only a couple weeks before they moved in!!!!! Now shes gone she seems to think i should get over it an be best friends again LOL never again are these kids except the youngest allow in my home. Sd even wants hubby at the birth just to try an rub it in cause shes jealous that hubby would choose me an my kids over them anyday an has told me this himself. Due to bio mum not allowing hubby to see them unless she wanted to go out drinking hubby an me have raised my kids an we are very close an skids hate it, me an my kids. I can honestly say i have never read anywhere that anyone step mum has a good relationship with their skids. It always seems to be the step mum that gets treated like shit even though they are the ones that bust their arses doing everything. My skids have even came out with i wish me an my kids die!!!! As far as im concerned my steps dont an wont come near me again an thank god the visitations are over for the older 2 who are both living with bf. Now just have to wait for the youngest to turn 18 an we dont have to have anything to do with bio ever again an the only time any of them ring is to try an get hubby to buy them something or to visit for school holidays ( youngest) we dont hear from them AT ALL until they want something which now is fine with me