I just came across this site, and I'm hoping for some advice. I am recently married and love my husband dearly. He is an amazing man. He has 2 biological children, I have one biological daughter, and we have one baby together. I love them all and we get along great. The issue is his second ex-wife and a boy that they adopted.

The boy - I don't like him. I know that makes me sound like a horrible person, but I don't like him. I don't like the way he talks, the way he walks, the way he acts. God knows I've tried. I've begged God to make me love him. But I just don't.

The EX - She tells my husband that I am jealous of her, and insecure, and who knows what else. My husband tells her to leave me out of things and I just don't say anything because I don't want to get involved in her crazy drama. But, now she is telling my husband that they need to talk and that he shouldn't tell me. That made me mad. Telling a married man to hide things from his wife is crossing the line.

So...anyone know how I can learn to tolerate the boy and make the EX leave us alone? I'd appreciate any advice or help. I love my husband and I don't want this to come between us.

Thank you.