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HI, I'm the CSM of a soon to be 13 yo boy. BM is not in the picture at this time, but has put all of us through hell over the years. And still continues to put poor SS through his own private hell, due to her unstable actions. SS was born with fetal alcohol/cocaine syndrom, but also is mildly autistic, has ADHD, and suffers from severe Post-traumatic Stress Disorder. Basically he is a 125lb, 5 ft 2", 4 year old.
BM is the Biggest POS to walk the earth. And still continues to amaze us all!!!!
THere is definately something mentally wrong with her, but who exactlty knows. She won't ackowledge anything, unless she is using it as an excuse for something she did or failed to do. She openly admits to many many mental and physical problems but won't do a thing about them. Much of it is in her head, so i guess that makes it a mental problem!!!!
Much to talk about, too much for one post. Just starting out with a Hello!!!!
Welcome
Welcome Suzie Q! It sounds like you have your hands full. It must take a lot of patience to deal with a child that has that many problems, especially since none of them are his fault and there isn't much you can do to change them. I too deal with a mentally unfit biomom who doesn't have much to do with her child. It is very frustrating...dealing with her crap and raising her child all at the same time.