I have been married for a year and my husband has two boys (14 and 12). I find myself struggling a lot to even like them. I don't want to tell my husband because I dont think he will respond well. I don't have kids and I have never been married, so it's ALL been a big adjustment for me. Is it normal to not like your step kids? Sometimes I just want someone to talk to about how I'm feeling that is where I'm at.