I am weakening
DH has not yet seen his only grandchild who is a few years old. They live on the other coast and without rehashing everything the daughters were severely alienated from my DH. They refused to attend our wedding years ago and during the pandemic I made a big push to forge a relationship? It didn't work and even the offer of several plane tickets for her whole family didn't entice her to visit. And what was the final straw was no invite to grandchild's first birthday which was a big party. So I've told DH I'm out of it. No more gifts bought. Apparently the sister is pushing DH to fly there. Interesting dynamics of the sisters. The youngest is the co dependent to the oldest who really has not invited DH which is why he has not yet flown there. So now he is dragging his feet. I can tell he feels uncomfortable. Should I go with him? I know. I know. And he has accepted I'm out of the loop.