After cruzin this site in the background, then posting last week. Have realised, that "yay" i'm not alone, and "yes" my SS is a lil twat most of the time. Very liberating actually. I've now come to the thoughts, that my SS is a twisted lil soul that I'm not actually going to understand now, or anytime soon....He's fed, watered, clothed and loved. I can now get on with my life and not be consumed by his "irrational" behaviour ...glad I found this site