DH was to pick up both kids from school today for visitation with him. He showed up to pick up and only SD was there, SS was kept home from school today although SD said she did not know as he was not sick. DH had a converstaion with BM2. She refused to explain why SS was not in school (to play games and cause trouble we assume!), she was also arguing about when DH can pick up SS for visit since she is not agreement on weather today (last day of school) begins summer visitation schedule or is it just a typical Friday for DH to pick up. DH is furious and SD is already acting a fool (on ground crying and screaming because dog who is five pounds supposedly scratched her but there is no mark on her body). SD was dressed like a hobo and smelled awful, with matted hair and fuzzy looking teeth. She cried over having to get cleaned up, brush her teeth and hair and put on clothes that fit and do not stink with stains all over. BM2 has instructed DH to return to her ghetto side of town for pick up of SS who will be a nervous wreck over his time with BM2 and her favoritism of SD while being mean to him.

In other terrible news, DH has two older boys they live near us and come and go as they please, both very very good boys. They have informed DH they do not want to be here overnight when SD is here as she is super jelous, annoying, crabby, greedy and ridiculous. We can not blame them, but are sad for SS as he is very loveable and loves to be around them. This will be hard on him and probably them too. I love SD even though drives me insane. I do care about her. I do understand the reasons for her attitudes and actions, but it is still not easy to be around an overgrown baby. I mostly disengage as does my DD and now my older steps as well. Their mother who is differant than I am in many ways, as expressed concern with BM2 being so crazy she is afraid of what she will force SD to say about the older boys. I understand that fear too and so does DH, we have discussed that in the past. So it will be better this way in the long run but sad over it for now.

BM2 is just disgusting! She ruins anything she can and there is no signs of it ever stopping. Poor DH! I wish he had never been married to her crazy ass!