Hi All - it's been a long time since I've been here. I hope you've all been doing well. I moved out - moved back in. Couples counseling is going exceptionally well and I feel like we are FINALLY on the right track. It is amazing to me how little we really have understood one another through the years. I guess communication means you both have to understand what is being said : ) I recommend this Imago therapy for any couple - it is amazing.

Anyway, the 17-year old SD is still creating havoc. Her dad is pretty permissive and even though she has shown little change in behavior, he gave her even more freedom during our separation. Now I find out she is drinking - even at school - and having a lot of sex with her boyfriend. I have given away any responsibility for discipline to DH and SD's BM - but I am concerned about liability issues. Even though DH knows she is drinking - he is still letting her drive. Since we are married and the car is in our names, I'm really worried about my liability should she get in an accident and injure someone. I'm going to get my name off the insurance for the vehicle as well as the title, but I don't know if that really helps. I'd hate to lose everything I've worked my whole life for because of her risky behavior. Has anyone had to face this? Any ideas?

Also Happy Easter - I hope the weekend goes well for all.