Not my kid. Not my problem.
I am entering uber-bitch mode.
After putting some laundry in SDrama's room, I found she left papers all over her bed. Well, of course, I opened them...don't leave shit out of you don't want it found. And don't be someone I don't trust at all either.
Surprise surprise. SDrama had yet another secret 'boyfriend'. A forlorn love letter about how she split up with him, bc someone spread a rumor about her being with the OTHER secret boyfriend she had last year. That we found out about from finding notes and letters when DS was in her closet looking for crafts for a school project. She was grounded for two months for that. He decided since she can't be mature enough to be honest, she's not mature enough to handle a relationship. DH is trying to put such a vice grip on SDrama to not turn out like her mother...guess what pal, it's too late. She's her mother. Give her back to the woman if you can't deal with it. Oh wait, you don't have to. I do.
I want to blow the whistle. But guess what? I kinda don't care..actually I don't care at all. I'm slowly disengaging from DuH and SDrama. It isn't my rule for her not to date. She's going to do it anyway behind our back. She already has. And if she gets grounded, guess who's going to have to deal with her 90% of the time. Me. And if the bitch ends up pregnant, guess who'll be raising that baby.....me. Oh no wait. It won't be. Cause I'll be out with my bios.
Over it. Way over it.
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15 As of Monday. Three more
15 As of Monday. Three more years....three more years!
Oh, well of course you are
Oh, well of course you are out to get her. I was told that I should be "the bigger person" when I told him I was tired of being shit on by a 14 year old. I told him to get fucked.
The sad thing is that I'm the
The sad thing is that I'm the only one who actually gives a damn how this kid turns out. She's already fucked up enough. I know damn well she will do anything to please anyone just to have them not mad. Well, except us. Obviously she doesn't give a shit about me and DuH. We are just good enough when she needs something.
I'm letting the cards fall where they may this time. She'll screw herself somehow...a lie only lasts so long. Not my kid, not my problem.
Wow...I am very lucky. Skid
Wow...I am very lucky. Skid chose not date in HS (H was the same exact way), until the end. She and her BF didn't start dating until a month before they graduated. In fact, she went to prom with girlfriends.
Disengaging is best with this situation. The more taboo you make dating, the more she will sneak around.
DuH and SDrama LMAO! Those
DuH and SDrama LMAO! Those are awesome names.
it's the truth thooooooo.
It's not two months for just
It's not two months for just having a boyfriend, I should've explained...
. That was just the icing on the massive shit cake of lies she handed us.
Having three Instagram accounts, two hidden from us that having pretty provocative pics on it.
YouTube videos posted with cursing and hanging out at a boys house we specifically asked her not to be at, bc we KNOW for a fact there's no supervision and a pot smoker. The real kicker that got all the rest of this bullshit out was lying about being with her mother all day on a Saturday, when she was at this boys house. We found out bc DuH called Skankula and asked when she was dropping SDrama off...she hadn't seen her at all that day! Skankula probably knew about that bc, and probably knew about the second one too. They ARE BFF's, you know...
It's the lying about it. And then here we go, lying again. We have said, time and time and time again, don't lie, we WANT YOU TO BE HONEST. WE WILL BE MORE PISSED ABOUT THE LIES. We've had her for almost three years full time come February. She still can't get this shit through her head?! This is what I can't take. She just doesn't give a shit. She has no respect for us, our feelings...but if Skankula hands her a guilt trip after ditching her for the 5th time this month, she's kissing her ass.
It drives me up a wall, which is why I'm disconnecting. I think sometimes DuH only wanted custody so he could get out of CS. Bc I told him, YOU need to make an effort. YOU need to spend 1-on-1 time with your kid, as recommended by the therapist she was seeing. Think any things been done? Nope. And now I resent him.