I'm just fascinated at how many consistent themes run through most of our relationships. The problems are so.... predictable. Fundamental. Guaranteed. So universal.

Why does no one know this/talk about this?

But the reality is families DO divorce, and likely both parents will remarry.

Everyone knows a child living with domestic abuse is likely to choose an abusive partner. Why we we teach people that divorced dads will likely fall victim to Disney Dadding, BM's tend to become psycho territorial bitches, and both parties will PAS and use the kids as pawns.

Maybe some of this could be avoided... or, if nothing else, maybe some of us would be less likely to fall into this trap!