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fiancee sends flirty texts to BM

love_my_shichi's picture

so I look on his phone and see that he writes....this morning...

Oh the boys were up bright and early shredding presents and having dutch baby pancakes. Smile let me know what you are up to and when you want me to bring them by and I will accomodate you Smile

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StickAFork's picture

How is that "flirty??"

It's no big secret I think this relationship is a terrible place for you to be, but I think you're looking for "small" things and ignoring the "big" things.

This text wouldn't bother me in the least.

Oh, and don't snoop on his phone. It lowers yourself.

love_my_shichi's picture

Yeah....I guess its the fact that now he's suddenly all cozy with her and sending smiley faces and trying to make things sound like it " Christmas as usual" over here....just like they do it every year? And why the hell is he kissing her ass and acting like they are best friends. He doesn't even put smileys on texts he sends TO ME? WTF?

I am super hurt. But at this point its just an extra kick in the teeth. His daughter is now a saint because she behaved at the movies and dinner. We go see the horrible pre-marriage counselor this evening and I cannot wait to see what is in store there.

So now my fiancee thinks nightmare daughter is a saint, is cozy with BM who he is paying $2000 a month child support and the kids cell bills....I bet next the psycho daughter will be coming over on weekends.

love_my_shichi's picture

It's okay though....with our house paying as high as it is....we cannot afford to live like this. He cannot cover for BM like this even if he wants to. he has to still be in live with her or something. Why would he make our budget suffer for her unless he was trying to impress her? I think he wants her back. He thinks because he is sober now that maybe she'll take him back. Well, she's remarried....and I highly doubt after all the cheating he did on her and lying about his addiction that she would. He is a fool.

BSgoinon's picture

That's funny. My DH refuses to send a smiley face. And he hates it when men use LOL. **eyeroll**

goincrazy.com's picture

I guess I'm the oddball in this thread but this text would annoy me.

I wouldn't get super jealous bc I really don't think that my FDH has ANY type of anything for BM but the texts should be strictly business IMO, and " I'll accomodate you" does sound like he's buttering her up or kissing her ass. It's annoying