Bio mum pissed off her ex baby daddy buys a meal just for their kid, not her other kids
Just came across the link below. A bio mum with 4 kids from different baby daddies is pissed off one of the baby daddies brings a meal over like mcdonalds for their joint kid but not her other 3 kids she had with other baby daddies.
Bahaha, she reckons it's unfair and he should be buying meals for kids that are not his responsibility. He says those other 3 kids are not his responsibility and when she claims she doesn't get food stamps till Saturday, he says that's not his problem
Now she won't feed their 1 kid with the mcdonalds the dad bought him unless he brings food for all 4 kids. He tells her off they're her kids and she chose to have them with other men.
bio mum claims he knew what he was getting into and was automatically responsible for those 3 extra kids that aint his. Sound familiar anyone (hint, quite a few of the exwives and biomums we read about here)
https://fb.watch/dVzZVgcJhl/?fs=e&s=cl
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What would have been okay for
What would have been okay for the GUBM to say is that he can take his kid OUT for McDonald's, but it's actually NOT cool to bring McDonald's for one kid when she can't get it for her other kids.
Her solution that he has to buy food for her other kids is ridiculous, but he could come pick his kid up and take them out for McDonald's. Simple solution.
Kids are starving all over
I would think that if he was feeling "charitable", but he should have taken the child out with just him, so other kids dont have to see it...
Sounds like a trainwreck situation anyway.
Clearly he doesn’t appear to be charitable
And it's obvious they aren't on amicable terms and his sole point was its not his fault the other 3 kids dads are deadbeats and biomum can't afford to feed them luxury mcdonalds when she's relying on food stamps.
the dad's sole focus and responsibility was buying 1 meal a day everyday for his son. Appears the biomum can't afford to care for any of them but doesn't want to give custody of that child to the dad.
Wow
The entitlement of some of these BMs is nothing short of astounding!
I think it's rude to bring a
I think it's rude to bring a treat and give it to only one child in the home.. but I also understand it's not his job to feed her other kids. I agree with the "take your kid out to eat".. but not just buy him one happy meal and drop it off when he is fully aware there are other little kids in the house that will be upset that they didn't get a treat. He could have always told his EX he was going to do it.. and would be happy to buy the other kids something if she would pay them back..but sounds like she didn't have the money.
Who knows.. the guy might also be similarly strapped for cash.. and buying the one meal was all he coule do? and I guess if he is doing this regularly to ensure his kid eats.. he may really not have that kind of money to treat the other kids every time.. but the better option still would be to take your child with you.. spend some time with them right? and the kid isn't scarfing his meal down in front of his siblings.. making them feel bad.
Honestly.
My children range in age, oldest and youngest are 15 years apart. That means I had driving teenagers who would sometimes bring THEMSELVES food but not their little brother, it was annoying. Of course a 4-5 year old wanted French fries and a shake too. I finally told them if you can't bring little bro something just eat in the parking lot, fast food place, or your car before coming in.
No glove, no love. Wrap it before you tap it.....
and avoid this kind of problem.
I would not touch this baby mama with someone elses dick.
All 4 of her kids lost the mama lottery. It looks like at least one of them did not entirely lose the daddy lottery.
Three of her kids are not his and they are not his circus. Her presumptuousness and ridiculous shit is just nauseating.
The Spermclan used to play a version of this woman's crap. They would try to minipulate SS and fill him with guilt that the CS they paid for my SS took food and nice things away from his htree younger also out of wedlock spermidiot spawned half sibs by two other baby mamas thinking that his feelings on it would motivate my DW to drop the CS requirement.
It hurt SS deeply... until we showed him the CO setting CS at $110/mo then reviewed our monthly budget for housing, food, clothing, transportation, entertainment, etc... That $110/mo was less than 10% of the housepayment at that time much less the entire monthly budget for complete living expenses for SS, DW, and I. They told him that the only reason why he had nice things and we had nice homes, cars, vacations, etc.. was because of their pittance in CS.
As he got oldewr and gained clarity it was game on and he would shut that crap down in real time when he was on SpermClan visitation. That he knew the facts used to make them livid. SpermGrandHag would call my DW and rant about SS knowing the truth. Our message to the Hag was always, don't lie to the kid. He knows the facts and always will. You and your idiot son need to make better choices.
We did not ever tell SS that they were lying POS sub humans. The facts made that readily apparent to him. As he got older, he would do his own research on their crap. The Hag hated that even worse.
Time for this dad to start to give the same advantage to his child regarding the baby mama's bullshit. His kid cannot be abandoned to the collective parenting failures of this idiot BM. The kid in question is probably very young, so dad will have to keep pummelling BM with the facts until the kid gets old enough to be introduced to the facts.
This video was infuriating to watch for me.
smh