Feels like it's always me
SD17 and SS15 are on CO for visitation EOW and vacation time. The 2nd time they gave us a revised schedule of when they are going to visit this summer and we discussed it then. SD17 is very high maintenance and to get him to set some kind of schedule for the year and give us notice( not changing weekly) I make him take the day off when she is here. I thought this would deter him from allowing them to come over whenever. We live in an apartment, they are almost adults and I think giving notice to come visit is respectful. Anyways he took the days off but I am going to hide in my room. She changed the plans again and is now coming for 2 more days. I flipped. Am I always going to feel this way? So annoyed by everything his children do and his why do you care anyways attitude (like nothing they do phases him) why does it bother me? They are able to make plans to do everything else... but our time is expendable. I don't think I can do this anymore. The children have become triggers to me and I can't help it. I've only been married a year, together for 5, but each new situation presents different turmoil and it's not looking like it will ever end.