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Submitted by bjc26 on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:23pm

About a month ago we got family pictures. This last weekend we gave copies of the skid's pictures to their BM. We didn't include any with my H or me. When we dropped them off along with the skids this weekend, H told BM that if they wanted more pictures that he would get the website for them so they can order them. So he went back that afternoon to pick the skids up and BM told him she really wanted the website. But giving it some thought yesterday and today I'm not sure if I'm okay with this. I mean really it's no big deal but there's just something about the thought of her and her crackhead family all around the computer staring at OUR family pictures. Just bothers me a little. I know that previously there had been some blogs about the family picture thing and I was just wondering if anyone else feels like this?

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Submitted by stepmom008 on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:29pm

I would be uncomfortable with this as well. I mean, you already gave her pictures, why else would she need access to the website?

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

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Submitted by bjc26 on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:34pm

Well my H says it's so they can order more pictures for those family members on their side to have. We got a limited amount of pictures ourselves because pictures are kinda expensive. I had mis-calculated on how many we were going to need so I had to give up some of the ones I wanted to give to BM....well I didn't have to but I did.

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Submitted by stepmom008 on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:39pm

Well, if it's that she just wants more of the same pictures, she can just tell DH how many she wants, he can order them and she can pay him for them, right?

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

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Submitted by belleboudeuse on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:45pm

Agreed.

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Submitted by Torn on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:36pm

Yep, I am too. Every year we get family pictures. We get pictures with my MIL, FIL, and BIL. we get a few pictures with all of them and us. Then we get a few with just us-Me DH, SD and our two kids. Then we get one of the kids. But for some reason, my DH always gives our SD a wallet size of US. Not just of the kids but US And for the life of me I don't understand why. I think he does it to show BM that we are a family(with out her). lol. I wish he wouldn't, I hate BM and I don't want her staring at my family. But, whatever. It doesnt bother me as much as it used to because BM does the same thing. She gives SD wallet sizes of her and her siblings on her side to bring to her room here..

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Submitted by onehappygirl on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 1:19pm

I understand that. How about next time not even offering to give her any pictures. If she wants pictures of her kids, she can get them made herself.
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Submitted by stepmom008 on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 1:43pm

Damn right! See what being nice gets you? lol. seriously though, it's unfortunate because you can't be as nice as you'd like to be because BM's will take and take and take and still never have enough.

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".