Hi i just got my account today :)
Hello everyone and let me say that i think anyone who takes on other peoples children are heros . Im 23 with no kids and live with my BF who has 3 kids (3,6 and 13) they are with us every other week .
I love reading all the blogs and find it conferting to see that im not alone is these situations .
I have one question for you people who have been stepparents for many years , does it ever get easyer ???
My top things that i dont like abut this is how mutch money kids kost , how crazy the BM´s are and the lack of freedome ...
Look forward to following this site.
P.S sorry for the bad spelling im not english .
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WELCOME Sykurudi!
and to answer your question, I have been with DH for 9 years. And in my Step life. BM/SD/ life gets harder and harder!!!
Good luck
Hello and welcome
My mom said it never really gets easier....you just adapt:) Kids are super expensive. I never get out or away and my step daughters BM is one of the craziest on the block:)
It hasn't gotten easier for me over the years but somehow I seem to have survived with minimal battle damage. Parenting in general is just plain hard but it can be rewarding too. I'm lucky that I get along extrermely well with my twin SD's. They love their half sister like she's trully their blood. There is no drama in our home aside for the afore mentioned crazy BM who is in prison right now. PHEW!
I realize how lucky I am.
Having a baby does not make you a mother.
Yes, you are lucky but maybe
Yes, you are lucky but maybe it's so easy for you because you don't have to deal with BM because she's not interfering or around. Also, you don't have to deal with your skids having two sets of rules because you and your DH have full custody so it's your way no matter what. It's always easier when there's no outside "disturbances" around...