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My SO and his wife have been separated 3 years...we've been living together for one. Met through his daughter who really loves me well after they were separated. STB ex-wife didn't care at all about trying to get him back until I came into the picture and then she went all out this past Nov. Has tried and pulled everything to try and get him back, including totally alienating his kids. Their marriage had been over for years even before he left.
Yet another installment. Again, I begin by saying that anyone just stumbling upon this blog might be confused without having read the previous posts.
My then-boyfriend and I broke our lease at the rental house in the suburbs after only 6 months. Many things led to this, including the dead rabbit and my dad's passing, but I won't go into all of them. I moved back into town with my sons, as did he and his daughter.
Ok everyone my SS is playing the guilt game on my husband and now things are getting worse between us. My SS is doing the "oh I"m so sorry for breaking you up it's all my fault I'll work on getting better but I'm sick and you have to just give me time." OMG that is such a load of crap he is a compulsive lier and has pulled this one before. My husband is pulling back from us saying my SS is telling him that he feels abandoned by me just like his mother did it too him.
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it's funny i just had i thought after posting my last blog(for thoses that have read it i'm sorry for the length).
but for as long as i can remember i have wanted to offer c absolutly everything that my boys have had even though she doesn't live with us and her visits only work out to about 23% of the year and i always wanted her to feel she had a place at our home no matter what happened. c was also the reason that my hubby and i had decided not to have anymore kids just incase she ended up living with us, we didn't have the room for 4 but also the costs etc.
well my last blog gave a brief run down on how i became a young mum plus a step parent.it also illustrated the struggle my now hubby has gone through with his ex and his daughter. but i felt it didn't really illustrate the emotions of those few years or even the place that i have found my little family to be in now ( that being the mental and emotional place).
Today started off okay. I mean, I woke up....lol. First thing 2nd BM called me(lets call her BM2). She was nice, just called to say she just wanted to be friends because she wanted to know where her son would be going. Ok I understand that. Also to say that she thought talking to me would be less awkward than her talking to DH, which is true. And to say she was sorry that she was kinda mean when I cooled things off with her. She told me more things about DH which I asked him about, most I already knew, some he said were just untrue.
(Note: new readers will not know what I am talking about because I've done this in parts. Sorry!)
My long-time friend and I fell in love. Because we'd known each other for so long we didn't have any issues with moving in with one another after a few months of dating. I mean, our kids knew each other....we knew each other....we knew them.
Outside of the whole love thing, we also thought it would be nice, healthy even, to get his little girl around a constant female figure. Her mother still came around, but it got less and less as time went by.
If it feels wrong or bad it usually IS!!! When your Gut tells you DON'T Do It...DON'T!!!
I can't believe there weren't any major blow ups. We (BD & myself) did confront DH on Friday about some hitting issues BD12 is having with SD at daycare. DH was "blown away" that these issues were going on. It was only when BD12 started crying and said that she was tired of it that it finally sank in to him. So we (DH & myself) called a "Family Meeting". Here the girls were allowed to air all of their feelings about things without the fear of punishment or judgement. New rules were established that "playing" has gone too far when "STOP" is said.
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