I don't even know where to begin!! I'm so mentally drained that it's going to cost me everything!! All because of a 20 year old step son that has a child of his own with no high school diploma, no job, no nothing !!! My husband has to older children that he has no relationship with so with this kid he trying to prove at point to himself and try to make up with this one!!  I think me others in similar situations can write a book on what's going on!! I just wanted to start here...