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Please, I need some encouragement! I cant do this!

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Submitted by Rogue on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 6:31am

The whole weekend my husband has been a real jerk towards me, now i know why! His obese cow of a daughter just rocked up at our house! He didnt even tell me shes coming over! And she has enough luggage to stay a year! I hate her! She doesnt even have the decency to greet me! She plonks down on the couch and will sit there for days, stuffing her face. She follows her dad like a damn puppy! I have to walk around on egg shells now cause she will go at me for every damn thing. Im going to try and record it as daddy doesnt believe it of his brat! I feel like an intruder in my own home!

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 6:50am

Rogue old buddy old friend....

you know she rocks up Thursdays and leaves hopefully Mondays... It's been going on for months now...

Thus ensure there's no snacks and nice stuff for her to stuff her face with over week-ends, hide everything in you room and lock it up, or in your kids room and they can lock it up.

Then ignore her the whole week-end, if you want to watch TV simply take the remote and change the channels... if she complains, ignore ignore ignore... If DH says something, smile and say.. as long as I'm paying for this I will watch TV when ever, if she does not like it she can start paying herself.

If she leaves dirty dishes every where keep on ridding your DH to clean, you can't say a thing about her room, but the other shit all over the house, just pick it up for her, be a nice SM and then trash it Hon, just disengage from the skids and enjoy life

H is upset week-ends cause he really does not want her there but he has no balls and can't say NO

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Submitted by Rogue on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 8:47am

She wasnt here the weekend, and i thought i could breath a bit! Now she pitch on a Monday with a whole suitcase. Luckily she is stuck to her dad like a tick and has been out with him the whole day so far! I really wish i had a place to go when shes here! I wont cook or bake, she can make her own food! Ill try my new disengage tactics.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 8:48am

put your foot down girl - she can't squat during the week, when every one has to go to work and kids to school, school nights etc......

I think she moved in and DH forgot to tell you, kick her out tonight...

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 9:04am

Then do something about it, tonight do not post pone, you've got my number for after hours Hon,
and some other ladies will support you as well...

tonight is the night you will put your foot down, he can't live without you, he showed it through the years,
but do not tell him.. choose me or Bitch..

Simply say, I agreed to get married 10 months ago, cause this was the situation, I dis not sign up for the new situation, SD please pack your bags, I'm dropping you off at Mums tomorrow morning..... and in the future...
call before you decide you are moving in.

To H - you say: We are married now and thus we will take decisions together, we are not going to do as we please, we can discuss this as a married couple and then decide together and until there's no mutual decision things will stay as the day we got married... or I'm done with you... (but this little talk you have privately)