Update:

So, I found out that the bratty SD plans on staying with us for most of the summer. My anxiety level just went up. I had my sis in law ask her because SD talks to her about everything. So, I got a text this morning that SD does not know if she will be staying or not because she doesn't know if her summer school classes are going to be in a classroom or virtual. I am praying that they will be in classroom sometimes because I don't want SD with us all summer. What really irritates me is that the SD doesn't even ask if she can stay with us. She just shows up with her stuff and when ask how long she's staying, she just gives an I don't know answer. My DH doesn't say anything about her doing this; he just allows her to do what she wants. The same thing happened at christmas when I told him she could stay a couple weeks and he had a fit which led to an argument.  He doesn't tell his kid no and that is a problem. So she just assumes that since we have a house now that she can do what she wants and I have no say. I guess we will find out next weekend when she comes up to work her measely four hours at her job for the month, waste of gas IMO, we will see how much stuff she brings. 

I told my sis in law that I don't want her here that long and that this is not her house. I told sis in law that I will never live with SD or anybody else again. Probably wrong but oh well. She said that the BM is mean to the SD and that's probably why she wants to come to our house. I said karma has come to her because she was rude and disrespectful to me for so long. I said why should my peace be interrupted by her. 

I feel like I'm disrespected by him and by her. A couple months ago, my DH and I got into an argument and talked about a divorce, to which I called a divorce attorney and found out my rights. I don't know what to do now that I know that she is planning on staying that long. My husband doesn't support me in what I want/feel and she's a self-entitled brat that gets what she wants. 

Anyways, does anybody do anything outside the house when their bratty SKs come to visit for long periods of time? If so, what kinds of activities or self-care do you do for yourself? I'm looking for ideas because I don't know what to do with myself when she is here. I thought about getting a part time job but I don't know how that would be working full time. Thank you in advance for any advice or suggestions. All would be appreciated. 

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It has been a while since I've been on here. I think since last year. Last year in the spring, I blew up in the mortgage lenders office and told my husband I couldn't take living in his mom's house anymore and that I've had it. In September of last year, we bought  house and in October we moved in. Youngest hell SD moved to her mom's house in August of last year and we have been childless (thank Goodness), for the most part. Oldest SD doesn't have anything to do with DH unless the little B@#$% wants something which is hardly ever. We never see her except if she comes to a family get together. The last one was Mother's day at my SIL's house and oldest SD didn't talk to DH except to say hello and goodbye. 

It has been so wonderful that we do not live with the SKs and that they are not here. The only time the youngest SD comes is when she works for four hours on the first weekend of the month and if she has a break from school. But I still get anxiety when I know that she is coming to our house. It goes by fast and part of the time she is gone. But the time that she is here, I feel like I walk on eggshells still with her. I don't know why when this is my house and not hers. She thinks that evrything that her dad has is her house. I have told him that nobody will ever live here with us again. I told him don't even ask because it's not happening. His youngest SD is out of school I think today and will be going to summer school starting June 6th. But I'm getting anxiety just knowing that she is going to be coming here either this weekend or next weekend to work again. DH has told her that she is wasting gas driving back and forth but she doesn't want to get another job in the town she lives in.  I don't know why I get anxiety before she comes when this is my house and if she doesn't like things here, she can leave. I have also told DH that if he should pass away before I do, that everybody will come get their stuff and leave me alone. I know weird conversation to have. We talk about what if something happens to him because he thinks that he will pass away before me, that I should get married again and I tell him HELL NO! Youngest SD is done with school in a year and half and hopefully she will get a job in the town that she lives in because if she comes back here and tries to live with us, I will be moving out. 

Anyways, I don't know what the point of this post is for but I guess just to vent and get my thoughts off my mind. This post is a little all over the place and I'm sorry if I bored anybody. If you've made it through to the end, thank you very much. Have a good day!