SD uses social media to trash me
Has anyone experienced their SD or SS using Facebook to trash you, yes - actually refer to you as C***. Openly, repeatedly this occurs.
I am experiencing this. DH has since called his daughter on it, and that he wont tolerate with it any longer from her. She cried, she's sorry - (yeah - I think she's embarrassed she got caught) and he has received the money she had oustanding on a promissory note for a car loan. He's requiring she apologize to me.
Out of my hurt and frustration, I have taken his kids' pictures off the walls, putting them into drawers when I really wanted to burn them. I'm considering never attending an event where they are present, even if an apology is offered.
Any words of wisdom is appreciated. Thanks.
Thank you to all who have replied, or will. Your words are encouraging and help me understand that any and all effort I've put forward was a wasted gesture. I want to see things work out, but highly doubt it can with the mind-set of his daughter. By the way, my husband and I have a very strong foundation and marriage. Your guidance helps me to see that I could jeopardize that by pining over this every day. Your input has helped me to realize the right amount of emphasis to place with it.
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Next time it happens, report
Next time it happens, report it to FB and demand that her account his shut down. And yes, demand an apology.
Thanks for your response.
Thanks for your response. The FB viewers who have read her comment have sympathized to me, and are embarrassed for her. Enough so that several are unfriending her or whatever it is that you do on Facebook...
Thanks for your support and
Thanks for your support and understanding.
I'm sure over the years every
I'm sure over the years every time OSD has deleted and blocked me it has occurred. The most recent was just this last week. I know something was said about me bc MIL came over yesterday and said I saw the post but I don't know what it said. LIE. Oh well. She won't ever be on my FB again.
She must have found out that we gave SS18 the car.. bahahahahah
How old is she? If she's
How old is she? If she's younger than 13, it would be a real shame if Facebook somehow found out that she'd violated their terms of service and her account was disabled.
the SD is 28 years old, an
the SD is 28 years old, an investment representative, and the youngest of 3. The other two play with the discussions, adding their quips when convenient.
Holy Hell! 28? 28 years old
Holy Hell! 28? 28 years old and not mature enough to handle her business face to face rather than on social media. She is an adult and your husband is no longer raising her, no need to even have a relationship with her. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior at her age.
Thanks for your response.
Thanks for your response. Let's hope time changes things for both of us. My best to you.
Thanks for your input. I
Thanks for your input. I appreciate it.
Thank you for sharing your
Thank you for sharing your comments. I really like your quote!!
Thanks for your comments, but
Thanks for your comments, but especially thank you for your quote!!!!!
"Maybe if there are years of
"Maybe if there are years of a different attitude you might consider having a relationship with them."
AGREED and cosigned! An apology should not suffice!
thank you for your input. I
thank you for your input. I appreciate it.
Thank you for your comment,
Thank you for your comment, monkeysee.... My DH is angry with her, embarrassed by her, and I can't hammer on him because of her. She apologized to him, (mainly like I said before-my belief is she is sweating it that she got caught) but he set down his foot, told her it better never ever happen again. In the next sentence he informed her of her late payments in accordance with the promissory note he made her sign for money toward a car 20 months ago, and told her she immediately was to get other financing, he was cancelling the promissory note. He lined up a tow-er to get the car this past week, but she gave him a cashier's check for the balance of the loan and all late fees. She was whimpering about her sorry-ness, her words got ahead of her.
Yeah - they did.
Thanks again.
She showed you what she
She showed you what she thinks of you, believe her. At 28, it would be a miracle if she changed her view of you. Pretty stupid of her to use such a fowl word on Facebook.
Step 1: block them all from
Step 1: block them all from your real FB acct.
Step 2: Make a faux acct if you must to keep track of what is going on
She's 28??!!! GTFO that's
She's 28??!!! GTFO that's RIDICULOUS. I'm so sorry you're going through this, in the beginning I know my osd said mean stuff about me on twitter, I just never saw it and it was NEVER, (from what I heard), that bad...however my sd is 16..I was with everyone else that thought your sd was a teen as well.
Don't feel bad about cutting her the hell out, I'm glad your dh called her on it and I'm glad that you found some sage advice as well as perspective here. I can't even tell you how much of my thinking has changed in just a week or so hanging around here! Good luck to you, you deserve better!
Thanks omgstop.... Today has
Thanks omgstop....
Today has helped me more than I thought possible. I really did feel pretty alone and realize now I have fellow human beings with feelings much like myself who are challenged with selfish, immature, hateful and cruel behavior. For once in possibly ten days am I able to feel I can recollect my self-worth. Through the help of this website and members like you and others who have written to me today I feel I can plod through tomorrow.