BM is going down hill from here.
Found out today that not only did BM lie to us about where she was going to be moving too but that she moved into a more expensive place. She is supposed to be getting state assistance but it won't start for three months and they won't back date it. She is going to have to come up with $700 for rent for the next few months. She has gotten her cell phone shut off and her internet. She also had the nerve to go and buy $300 passes for her and SD3 to the local water park for the summer and spends every day out there. She also wants to sign up SD3 for a competition cheer squad that is over $600. I have a feeling we are going to get stuck with things in the end.
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I agree. Our BM chooses to
I agree. Our BM chooses to put our 3 SSs into stuff without DHs consent & without his prior approval before they are signed up. dH pays an exorbate amount in CS & BM tries to invoice us-but she is on the hook. Not us. We truly cannot afford it as she puts them into every thing!! Sad too cause their grades suck. But what can we do. We are a state away & non custodial. Leave HER on the line-- cheer? At 3? Did I read that right?? That's a total waste of money. IMO
It's a status thing here.
It's a status thing here. People can buy their kids way onto the competition squad there other places they have to earn a spot. Yep competition cheer at three and she wants her to be considered four and with the older kids. She needs to learn to write her name and count to ten first. She took her out of her learning daycare and now she is behind. She doesn't care about what is best for SD never has.
Going to give it time because she will be on the streets in no time and then we file contempt with order for modifications and a home study to determined best interest. No place to live... case closed.
Court order states nothing
Court order states nothing but she gets x dollars and that's it. Visitation and child support orders are seperate and it is set by the state.