Just a trip down nightmare lane when I first started dealing with stanch Disneyland Dad and his "if I can't come first 100 percent then my spawns will come first over your serious relationships" mentally unstable breeder. 
 

I remember this itchB traipsing back in town with her spawns, moving 5 minutes away, then pretending like she couldn't parent her kids.   Nothing was wrong with her except Disneyland Dad enabled her trifling behavior "for the sake of those kids". 
 

Not skids this time but .... my mother 

She decided to come into town and to be nice and a good daughter I told her she could stay at my place. 
 

Im regretting everything...

Not only is my new place smaller (so I can't  hole up in my room to avoid having to make small talk/entertain) but she decides to stay mf ing SEVERAL days as if I'm just as job-free as she is 
 

Like look here, just because you're retired doesn't mean I wanted you to invade my space while I'm working from home and glued to my desk. 
 

Have y'all ever noticed just how annoyingly insecure Bio/Disney parents are the moment you address your concerns how overly child-centric they are and how that behavior negatively affects your adult relationships?

Stable Step-Parent: "I would like a schedule of your parenting times"

Delusional Disney Parent: "You're trying to keep me from spending time with my kids"

Stable Step-Parent: "Your kids need to clean up behind themselves"

Delusional Disney Parent: "You're trying to treat my kids like sl@ves!"

My bio is heading to college (free at last lol!) and I'm really disappointed and sad she did not choose the college I was hoping she'd choose. 
 

She toured a few colleges with her school and then I took her to tour multiple colleges nearby. 
 

Onenof the ones I took her took we met administrators, coaches, students, etc. she spent the night in dorms, worked out with their athletic team, and more 

They were surprisingly very hospitable despite the prior preconceived notions. And a straight shot couple hour drive away.